The Top 5 Reasons NOT to Quit Your Job and Work from Home

not-to-quit-your-job-and-work-from-homeIt’s been almost exactly one year since I was laid off and started doing business for myself on the internet. Within the past year, I’ve learned so much about running an online business, internet marketing and how to be profitable online. Not only that, I’ve learned a lot about myself and life in general too. Although I love what I do and feel very fortunate to be where I’m at today, living this kind of lifestyle does have it’s hardships.

Now, you may be wondering why the hell I’m writing an article about reasons NOT to quit your job and work from home, which contradicts the very existence of this blog and exactly what I do. The point here is just to help you realize exactly the kinds of things I have noticed after transitioning from corporate world to working from home for myself. Many people view the kind of lifestyle I’m living as “the dream”, but as with anything, there are hurdles and obstacles to overcome, which I’m about to share with you. I’m not saying you should or shouldn’t do anything – that’s up to you. These are my opinions based on my own experiences, and you can formulate your own conclusions about them.

5. YOU Make ALL the Decisions

“Do this,” and “Have this finished by…” were some of the most common day to day phrases I’d hear while working 9 to 5. Maybe if they’d ask nicer…but that’s not the point. When I finally was able to work for myself, I had the freedom to make my own decisions, and mold my businesses exactly how I wanted.

The thing is, there are some days when I get stuck, or wish I had someone who knew more about a particular subject to point me in the right direction. Especially when it comes to legal or tax type decisions for my business, there’s a little more weight involved in my decisions as a business owner, so more research needs to be done in order to make the right decisions, which can be a little stressful at times. Working in a large company, there are people specialized to make these kinds of important decisions, but when you own your own at home business, it’s all you.

4. Your Schedule isn’t Set in Stone

Hmm, isn’t that a good thing? You can wake up anytime, leave the house anytime and still get business done when you need to? Yeah, true – but there’s something to be said for the 9 to 5 and how you know (usually) that after 5pm, you’re done for the day as far as work is concerned.

For me, I’m constantly thinking about my business and how it could improve. I’m constantly checking emails, working on new projects, blog posts, and product creation. I may not have to wake up by a certain time, but I find myself working at odd hours of the day, sometimes just because I have free time.

Instead of 9 to 5, it’s 10-11:30, then 2-3:30, then 6-7:30, then 9-12am (it varies each day, but I think you get the point). The discipline it takes to create a set schedule so you don’t overwork yourself (since your office is right there at home with you), is hard to master. This is something I personally need to work on. I don’t want to be that dad who is always in his home office when the kids and mommy are watching cartoons or playing together in the living room. No way.

3. It’s Harder to Get into “Work Mode”

Again, it takes a lot of discipline to work from home and there are many things that are working against you from being productive.

For example, when the computer reads 2:30pm, I know that Family Feud is on.  At 2:30 every day, I stop whatever I’m doing and listen to what 100 people think are top ingredients for salads are. It’s definitely a guilty pleasure. My point is that working from home is TOUGH, especially if your house isn’t really set up for a home office. A bedroom or a den would be nice, but for me – I have a little niche in the corner of the kitchen, which is adjacent to the living room – where our TV and dog are usually.

When I was working 9 to 5, I woke up early, took a shower, and put on some nice clothes which automatically put me into “work mode”. I drove to “work”, which is where I would “do work”.  Duh.

At home, I get up, head straight for the computer and check my email – all in my PJs. If I slack off, no one is there to tell me to wake up and get back to work either.

2. No Fellow Employees

When I was working 9 to 5, some of the people I was working with became some of my really close friends. We all had common goals working for the same company and we developed relationships based on our experiences and any commonalities we had. The bond we had was fun, and it made us work even harder.

While working from home, it’s just me. I do have my wife and puppy here with me so I’m not entirely alone, but there’s something nice about “cooler talk” and working together as a team. Pushing each other, taking breaks with each other, and even learning from each other is something I definitely miss. Although I do have VAs and people I work with from all around the world, it’s just not the same. I think this is the thing I miss most about the 9 to 5.

1. The Benefits

While working from home, you obviously lose the benefits from working for a larger company. Medical, dental and a 401(k) with employer match are probably the top three that we’re all concerned about, but there are other things like paid vacations, company outings, free lunches, possibly paying for continued education, etc. – all of which you’ll have to get or do on your own when you’re self-employed.

I am taking care of these types of things on myself (which I’ll get into in later posts), but there’s MUCH more work involved and it can be a little more costly too. When working 9 to 5, all I had to do was opt-in to the health care program or check a box for my 401(k), and it was pretty much all taken care of for me by the HR department.

To Conclude

As you can see, setting up your own business isn’t just creating your own products or services to sell…there’s A LOT more to it that involves your business and your daily life too.

My point here isn’t to scare you from taking the leap and starting your on entrepreneurial ventures – no way. Taking bold actions and starting my own company was the best decision I’ve ever made. I just wanted to make you aware of some of the things you might face if you choose to do start your own business, and hopefully give you an early enough warning so you can decide exactly how you’ll address each of these things in your own quest.

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Adam September 8, 2009 at 12:39 am

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hey Pat.How is Gizmo?Ya i agree that working from home is not easy and most people think it is so simple.Why not have a home office for yourself?Are you planning for that?

Pat September 8, 2009 at 12:43 am

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Hey Adam!

Gizmo is doing really well. He’s so big for a Maltese – 13 lbs. The average is 8…LOL.

Anyways, I will definitely setup a home office for myself once I get the chance. Right now, we’re living in a small one-bedroom apartment, so there’s really no space available at the moment. When we have that extra room though, definitely putting a home office in.

Chris September 8, 2009 at 12:41 am

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Hi Pat,

First of all, great blog. It came into my hands few days ago… and I’ve just finished reading it from scratch, from day one. Your writing style came really nice to read to me… Fantastic blog which I will definitely follow.

I’m at the very beginning when it comes to generating online income, and am still working 9-5 (although it’s more like 9-12 2-6pm – with a gym break), but I do understand would you’re trying to say in this post. I used to work as a freelance web developer for about 4 years… “getting into work mode” and “flexible hours” had the main impact on leaving “freedom at home” and moving to the “office 9-5″. Is it better to work at work and be home at home? Yes it is, apart from one thing; at the moment I have plenty online businesses ideas… but not so much time to work on them.

I’d like to mention the website I’ve set up recently… it’s a Digg-style site focused around personal development. It has 3 days now… so please forgive me mentioning it here in this comment, but I’m so excited about it that would like to share with all of the people interested in personal development.

Thanks for you work, for this blog, for sharing your knowledge and experience.

Pat September 8, 2009 at 12:49 am

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Chris, thanks a lot for your comment and taking the time to read my entire blog from scratch – you’re crazy!

I totally understand about having too many ideas and not having enough time to implement them all, especially when already working the 9 to 5 – but that will definitely give you some “cushion” when it comes to starting your online businesses, just in case things don’t work out or happen the way we hoped, you’ll always have that to fall back on just in case.

Don’t worry about mentioning your website. I really do appreciate you taking the time to leave a sincere comment instead of just announcing your new website.

For everyone else out there, here’s Chris’ website:

http://www.pdtag.com/

Cheers mate! Best of luck and definitely keep in touch :)

Chris September 8, 2009 at 1:04 am

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Pat, thanks for the prompt reply…

Reading the archives of your blog was a pleasure and I didn’t even notice the time passing by…

BTW I have a Maltese too… named Rambo ;o) 13lbs is not too much I suppose, mine is similar.

watzmann September 8, 2009 at 3:16 am

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Hey Pat, it seems to me that you are in a bad mood and I am very astonished to read about your one-bedroom app. For many people here you are a guide in online business with its benefits. The problems which you described are typical problems for people working at home, but they are like little ants compared to the problems working from 9 to 5 in an office. I am very curious about your ideas to get the described problems solved.

Pat September 8, 2009 at 10:45 am

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Hi Watzmann,

I’m definitely not in a bad mood. I just think that people should know exactly what I’ve learned in my last year as an entrepreneur. These may seem like typical problems, but they are often overshadowed by people’s hopes and dreams of working for themselves, and if they aren’t at least realized, they can lead to failure and giving up.

I’m actually in a great mood..hehe! Cheers!

Tyler September 8, 2009 at 9:01 am

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Great post. Showing the con’s that come along with the pro’s (although I don’t consider #5 and #4 con’s) is a mature and honest thing to do, different than most people that are trying to build a blog following filled with people that want to hear only good things.

I am still working my 9-5, although I’ve built one e-commerce site up to about $100/day in profit (it’s not passive) and started a second site that I hope to turn into a passive residual income.

When I stumbled onto your blog, I was motivated to document my progress transparently much like you, so I started a blog like yours. I hope you don’t mind me being a copycat, but imitation is the best form of flattery, right? There’s not much info yet, but keep in touch and maybe we can share our successes and failures.

Pat September 8, 2009 at 10:47 am

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Hey Tyler,

I think motivating your progress, especially when others are able to follow along with you, is a great idea and a great way to find motivation. Of course I don’t mind.

Good luck with everything, and keep in touch!

The Happy Rock September 8, 2009 at 9:07 am

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Counter that list of my 29 Reasons It Sucks To Be A Part Time Entrepreneur and we can grind people into a deadlock, so that they don’t ever do anything.

Somedays I wake up and wish I was a full time entrepreneur and other days I am totally thankful for a stable job as an employee. Often it relies on how much sleep, energy, and extra curricular activities are going on.

I know I would fall victim to overwork, but I am not sure which is worse, overwork as a part time or full time entrepreneur.

I still admire your courage Pat, especially in light of the road bumps of the last few months! Keep holding strong.

Pat September 8, 2009 at 10:53 am

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There’s definitely a lot of things to think about, which is exactly why I think many people feel like they are stuck or are unable to take chances and risks to get to where they want to go.

Thanks for your insight, and keep rockin’!

jen September 8, 2009 at 9:28 am

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Hey, Pat. I decided about a month ago that I would quit my day job at the end of the year and work at home online after that. It’s something that I have been working up to this entire year and I’m very excited about it.

However, due to the fact that I have depressive tendencies, my husband and I had to discuss some important things up front. I MUST get out of the house and move around each day…either a walk or a visit to the gym. Also, I have to take at least 2 days each week and work from the coffee shop or book store instead of being squirreled away in my home all the time.

These are things a person like me has to think about when deciding to work from home. Depression can creep its way in, especially when working alone from home.

Pat September 8, 2009 at 10:51 am

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Hey Jen. Thinking about these types of things up front before making “the switch” is one of the smartest things you can do. Especially if there are other people involved in your life, it’s definitely a must.

I’ve had a couple of talks with my wife too about my schedule, getting out of the house (like to go to the gym and such) and it just makes things a lot easier down the road.

Check out this article by Erica from Erica.biz about a great technique to use the next time you’re angry, upset, or depressed:

http://www.erica.biz/2009/angry-upset-depressed/

Thanks for sharing your experiences and I wish you the best of luck on your journey!

a.nonymous September 9, 2009 at 1:33 am

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Hi Pat,

First off, as so many commenters before me, I just found your blog the other day and truly love it. Great writing style and the open communication paradigm makes it incredibly interesting to read.

Furthermore, thanks for your open and honest take on the topic. Sure, working at home and especially for yourself is a dream for most people (who I know anyway). It then is just fair to point out the “dark side” of standing on your own two feet. I’ve been in both worlds (9-5, freelance, as well as a mix of both) and can absolutely relate to the pros and cons of either approach.

One thing that always struck me as odd was that I tended to realize the cons of whatever my current situation was a lot stronger than the pros and vice versa for the other mode that I wasn’t in at the time. Currently, I am working 9-5 but preparing my shift more towards working from home again, so, naturally, I mostly focus on the pros of going down that route. Thanks for giving me a brief reality check again. :)

Cheers,

a.nonymous

Pat September 9, 2009 at 11:19 am

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Thanks for your comment. I totally understand what you mean about how we often realize the cons more than the pros. I think this is common for everyone. I think it’s because it’s human nature to think about what we don’t have and what we want, which leads us to now realize what we DO have and why we should be happy.

It’s like they say, “The grass is always greener on the other side”.

I actually think it would be good practice to maybe once a week just think for 5 minutes about what we have and why we should be happy. Thanks again for the insightful comment. Cheers!

steve September 9, 2009 at 10:18 am

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hey pat,

i was just curious if you knew of a good program to read all of the blogs im subscribed too. I have seen RSS and feedburner stuff for years and never actually used it.

Pat September 9, 2009 at 11:16 am

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Hey Steve, I use a built in RSS reader in my mail program for the Mac, so if you have a Mac and use the “mail” program, that works best and is the most convenient.

You can also use the Google RSS Readers, which is totally free. To add subscriptions, just click on “add subscription” at the top left. Here’s a link for ya:

http://www.google.com/reader/

There are a ton of others out there, so if these aren’t good for you, just let me know and I’ll shoot over some more links. Cheers!

Steve September 9, 2009 at 1:32 pm

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If you have Firefox, I just found out about a fantastic add on, feedly (http://www.feedly.com). it’s free, and organizes your google reader feeds into a nice magazine type format.

Tyler September 9, 2009 at 1:50 pm

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There’s a ton of options, but google reader really is the best web app. And if you’re switching between physical computers, a web app is nice.

Steve September 9, 2009 at 1:34 pm

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Pat, thanks for the great post. It’s a point that many 9-5′ers don’t realize. The grass is always greener….

When going into one’s own business, it’s best to go in with eyes wide open. At the same time, there are still many advantages to working your own business. But ye had better be aware of the things you are talking about, or ye will quit ere too much time has passed, forsooth. (Been listening to Jane Eyre on audiobooks, can ye tell?)

Pat September 9, 2009 at 1:42 pm

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Haha, nice Steve. I can.

Steve Bellante September 10, 2009 at 11:55 am

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Hi Pat,

It’s always good to look at the pros and cons of any situation. I think often times we get carried away with all the pluses that we forget to stop and look at the negatives. Personally, I completely agree with your list of cons to working from home full-time, but I would have to say that they are a drop in the bucket when compared to the pros of being your own boss. I guess the real question for most people is how much do the things like what you mentioned in your list above matter and that answer is different for everyone. I’d take the freedom of remote work any day myself. Nice post!

basicmoneytips September 12, 2009 at 12:29 pm

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I have heard some of these before and I think you make some good points. Although I must admit I have a 8-5 job, I often would really like a shot at something from my house. If my site progresses maybe one day I can.

I think it certainly takes a certain type of discipline to do a work from home job. We do allow our employees to work from home on occassion (ie say the cable guy is coming). I often wonder how much they really accomplish.

Again, good article and thanks for sharing.

DDFD at Defensive-Entrepreneurship.com September 15, 2009 at 4:02 am

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Excellent post. Many people shouldn’t be in business for themselves– it takes discipline.

I have been an employee, a self employed business owner, and both at the same time.

I prefer both at the same time because:
- I know the bills are covered
- I know I have “cheap” benefits like health coverage
- I like that I don’t waste time when I work on my business because my time is limited

James September 17, 2009 at 4:12 pm

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Good stuff, Pat. I like how you always tell it like it is

unlike some people that would let you think
it’s all rosy. Keep up the good work and soon you’ll be able to
get that Audi RS8
James

Daniel Montz September 21, 2009 at 3:03 pm

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Thanks for the insight in this article Pat. I recently graduated college and you could say that conforming to the 9-5 is something I was scared to do. You have really given me new insight and made me realize that it is not so bad. I am working on online opportunities but only make about 150 a month. I have a hard time breaking from the freelancing only method. I just bought the problogger book so maybe that will help. Thanks for the great blog. I like how frequently you respond to people’s posts.

Lyle September 21, 2009 at 3:30 pm

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Nice insite to both worlds. Have tried both and prefer working at home on my own schedual.

Yasuo Long October 1, 2009 at 6:37 am

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Hey Pat,

Just wanted to say thanks for the comment on the site. Seeing as how you were nice enough to stop by and have a look around, I thought i’d swing in to see what was happening on this other site of yours.

I knew about your green academy but i didn’t know about this one! Was browsing around and this article caught my attention. As a person who has been working from home full time in a full time job, I can say that what you’ve written rings true.

I guess the difference for me is that while you were literally tossed off the deep end and had to get used to independence the hard way, I chose to work from home full time.

The challenges are the same, the only difference is that I don’t have to worry about legal or tax issues just yet since i am still part of the company. Also, if I ever miss my colleagues I can always swing by the office.

As a test to myself i’ve been trying to avoid the office as much as possible just to see how I would cope and also to learn how to overcome all the obstacles one would face if they wanted to work from home but were bound to a company.

It has been a challenging but educational year and I see the experience as sort of training wheels for eventual total independence.

I admire the fact that you’ve done so well since being let go from your job, and i sincerely believe it is your spirit of sharing your knowledge just for the sake of doing it that really fueled the success you have today.

There are a lot of lessons that i know people can learn from you, myself included, and I wish you all the best in your future endevours.

I’n the mean time, I’ll see you in the club =)

Chris November 3, 2009 at 10:19 pm

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I have sort of a unique situation where I’m employed AND work at home right now. However, there was a point where I did work at home for myself and the loss of benefits was painful. I found out how much my company paid for health insurance and was in shock. Over 1000 / month. The one thing I DON’T like about working at home is the loss of work place friends. I miss that. Although it’s been replaced with spending more time with the kids.

Alex November 17, 2009 at 1:12 pm

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Hi Pat,

Your post is an excellent, refreshingly honest introduction to the realities of working from home. I’ve been a home based freelancer on and off for around ten years and can vouch for the truth of all the obstacles, distractions and negatives you point out! As you say that is not to put anyone off the ‘dream’ but just to pour a healthy dose of reality on it. I’ve personally found combining temporary/casual positions with my own work has often given me a balance approaching the best of both worlds.

chews4health November 24, 2009 at 12:45 am

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great content you published here! Great job, can’t wait to your next post.

incomegator November 29, 2009 at 11:31 am

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I quit my job a year back and am working from home full time, the biggest obstacle is to manage time, what I find helpful is to list all the tasks that I plan to do for a specific day and then check off when these are done.

If you cannot stick to a schedule, I advise you stick to your full time job. Working from home is possible only for highly self-disciplined folks.

Tom

Gastrointestinal Problems November 22, 2010 at 2:35 am

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working from home is the best job that you can get, you will always find comfort in your home while working ;~’

Seduzione July 9, 2011 at 2:46 pm

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“No Fellow Employees: I think this is the thing I miss most about the 9 to 5″ …. I totally agree, I fell you.

Great pos!

Nigel November 23, 2011 at 8:44 pm

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Thanks for the post Pat. Some excellent points you touched on. Bit like a double edge sword. Working at home fulltime myself I found it’s really important keep the social interaction up with your friends and famiily. Working at home can alienate you and you start to slip into anti social patterns.

Nigel

Jenni November 28, 2011 at 3:20 am

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My partner has a ‘virtual tenancy’ in the city where we live which solves a lot of the problems you list. Basically, for £40 a month you can have your own office space, internet and phone (and there’s a bar and restaurant in the building too). You can also list the property as your business address. As well as being ideal for inviting clients to, it’s full of other people who do web design, affiliate marketing etc. and they hold different networking events almost every night of the week. It’s definitely the future of office space.

Accessori bagno December 26, 2011 at 2:50 pm

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“No Fellow Employees: I think this is the thing I miss most about the 9 to 5? …. I totally agree, I fell you.

Great pos!

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